Yash Chopra Success Recipe

Ingredients: Breathtaking locales, handsome hunks, skin-showing females, lousy story, lots of songs.

Method: Add equal portions of breathtaking locales, hunks, babes and cook for 2.5 hours in medium heat. Add songs and faltoo comedy at equal intervals. Keep stirring. Season it with a little bit of story. Delicious Dhoom 2 is ready. Serve it hot!

Journey Cut Short

Two years back he came to Oman with big dreams and stated working as a steward with a leading vegetarian hotel group in Muscat. Hailing from a small town in Kodagu district in Karnataka, India, this man in his late 20s was full of enthusiasm and raw energy. Knowing that I hailed from the same district, he used to share his stories, experiences with me, and every time he made sure we were given the best dining experience whenever we visited the restaurant.

From what I gathered, he had started constructing his dream house in his native place, and it was almost nearing completion. Although he earned a meagre salary, his was proud of his achievement. When we went back to the hotel after a gap of 2-3 weeks, we were told that he had quit the place. Only yesterday, I learnt that he had a tiff with his Indian manager, and was sacked and sent back home the next day. I feel sad for this guy. I sincerely hope he lands up a decent job very soon in India.

When I embarked on my journey towards Muscat two years back, I was advised: “Beware of Indians in the managerial level in Oman. They the biggest enemies for Indians in the lower cadre.” How true!

Don Ko ‘Pasand Karna’ Mushkil Hi Nahi, Namumkin Hai

Promos fooled me once again, and this time I fell victim to a Don. I am surprised how an innovative movie director like Farhan Akhtar can embrace stupidity in a matter of two films. Without battering an eyelid, I proclaim that Don is a stupid movie with a horrible script, mindless casting, confused director, etc, etc…the list is endless. So to say, SRK looks like Don’s secretary for the entire 180 minutes. At least, I would like to see a Suniel Shetty or a Sanjay Dutt as a Don, but never SRK. Thankfully for Farhan and his producer, it looks like the entire movie was financed by the Malaysian government with almost 95% of the movie shot in ‘Truly Asia’ country. The only saving grace is Priyanka Chopra. Unlike other Bollywood newbies, Priyanka is getting better by each movie in terms of acting. Good for her. Kareena, like always, looks out of place. What’s next, Farhan?

Parenting

Yesterday, I attended a lecture on “Happy Parenting” by Swamini Vimalananda of Chinmaya Mission, and I must admit, the talk was highly educative and enriching. Here are some points from the lecture:

1. Absolutely pamper your kids till they are two-and-a-half years. From 2.5 years till 17 years educate them, and from 17 years be friendly with them, but never be a FRIEND.

2. Every human being has four layers to himself – physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual. To feel contented and satisfied, all the four layers must be tapped or channelised in the right direction.

3. Investing ‘in’ the child is more important than investing ‘on’ the child. Investing on the child is providing him worldly comforts, while investing in is teaching him values of life and making him/her a better human being.

4. Kids tend to ape the actions and behaviour of the parents than their words. Parents must exercise caution in their day-to-day behaviour and set a right example.

5. Allow your kids to tune themselves to the nature’s way of living. Just because they are ‘bored’, don’t go on and on to satisfy their needs by mindless investment on toys, activity classes, etc. They must realise to have fun you don’t have to necessarily pay all the time. When we were kids a lot of games would be played outside the four walls of comfort and that too most of the games like lagoori, gilli danda, kabbadi, and marbles were played free of cost or at a minimal cost, and with maximum fun. But, these days, fun is associated with money.

6. Teach the kids that money is important but not everything in life.

7. When kids are young, allow them to follow their instincts. When a kid wants to climb a chair, or do adventurous things, just allow that to happen. Scary parents restrict these natural movements, which will pave way for fear factor to develop in the kid, and ultimately he will end up being a scary personality for the entire life.